Things appear to be better and they are better. The most difficult aspect of our relationship has been communication. There are strategies and sometimes we use them. Other times they are over powered by anger. So long strategies and so long communication – at least on the spot.
There seems to be pretty good supply of anger to around here. Trust me we have our reasons and I am not saying anything else about it. It has occured to me that while we continue work on our talking and discussing skills we need address those powder kegs sitting out back under the tree. And we will.
Powder kegs? Where? Damn, I can lose it in the ugliest ways. Next time – I go with my gut. And anytime we’re asked tricky questions, let’s confer before answering, okay? I promise to do my best to remember.
Comment by Lisa — January 4, 2009 @ 11:26 pm |
I guess the key is to slowly chop away at the fuse without creating a spark…. I haven’t figured out how thats done…. so, too often I internalize and try to ignore the fuse…. ley us know if you find the the answer…. thanks for sharing…. again!
Comment by nbratscott — January 5, 2009 @ 8:10 am |
ley = let…. oops!
Comment by nbratscott — January 5, 2009 @ 8:11 am |